Same 💩, different day…

Just to be clear about where I stand.

Every time I post about a specific experience women have had, there’s always someone who jumps in with “what about men?”

Of course it goes both ways. Life usually does.

But not every conversation is an invitation to centre yourself.

Naming misogyny isn’t hatred. Acknowledging patriarchy isn’t a personal attack and pointing out patterns isn’t bitterness… It’s observation.

I’m in the healthiest, happiest relationship of my life. I don’t post things because I’m secretly miserable or holding onto wounds. I post them because they’re real, and many women recognise themselves in them.

I’m no longer interested in softening truth just so it doesn’t offend someone who wasn’t the subject in the first place.

If your first instinct is to redirect, diagnose, or defend instead of reflect, that says more than the post ever did.

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I shared that today after this post

which I followed with…

If I post about a specific experience and your first instinct is “what about us,” maybe pause.

Of course it goes both ways. Life usually does.

But not every post is about everyone.

Sometimes it’s just about one story, one pattern, one group of people who recognise themselves in it.

You don’t have to insert yourself into every narrative to prove balance.

If it’s not your story, you’re allowed to scroll on by… just sayin 💁🏻‍♀️

I know when I post these quotes there will be pushback from some men, often accompanied by aggression and misogyny.

More often than not, I avoid posting these kinds of topics. Mostly because I don’t I want to offend the good men who follow my page. But I do agree with much of what is being said about feminism, patriarchy and misogyny.

Why? Because I’ve experienced it. I grew up with it. I’m watching it play out in real time.

For a long time, I saw certain things and simply accepted them as “normal.” I’ve since realised they are far from normal.

I don’t post about this to provoke or debate. I post because I believe it’s true. And it’s becoming harder and harder to ignore what is now out in the open.

I will no longer be compliant.

4th March 2026