Misogyny is always lurking…

So there’s a bit of a debate going on my page at the moment which stems from a quote I shared yesterday.

Below is something shared by one of the debaters on wife material 🙄 …

My thoughts follow..

The Modern Feminist Woman Will Eventually Turn Marriage Into War

A feminist wife isn’t a partner.

She’s a rival in disguise.

And the truth is—

A man can fight the world.

But he can’t come home every night and fight his wife too.

Because when a woman sees marriage as a competition,

She doesn’t just ruin her peace.

She ruins yours.

And eventually—she ruins the home you built together.

Let’s break it down:

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1. She Sees Leadership as Control

You call it guidance.

She calls it domination.

You make a decision.

She calls it oppression.

She’s not interested in partnership.

She wants power.

And no man thrives in a home where respect is treated like slavery.

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2. She Preaches Independence—But Spends Your Money

Online she screams,

“I don’t need a man.”

But offline?

She’s calling you for rent, bills, and comfort.

And if you dare remind her?

She’ll broke-shame you.

Suddenly, you’re the “problem.”

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3. She Turns Your Marriage Into a Courtroom

A good woman hypes your growth.

She celebrates your effort.

But a feminist wife?

She mocks every struggle.

She’ll argue you into silence.

She’ll twist your strength into “toxicity.”

And when she finally leaves?

She’ll still tell the world you were the villain.

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4. She Refuses to Compromise—She Chooses to Compete

Marriage works when both give ground.

When both water each other.

But a feminist wife doesn’t bend.

She believes compromise is weakness.

She believes leadership is a threat.

So every day, you’re not a husband.

You’re an opponent.

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Final Word

The woman who can’t stop competing with you will eventually destroy your home.

Not with cheating.

Not with lies.

But with resistance, rebellion, and rivalry that kills your peace.

Because a man can build empires with a wife who respects him.

But with one who resents him?

He’ll spend his life fighting battles inside his own walls.

Choose carefully.

Because if you marry a woman at war with men,

She won’t give you love.

She’ll give you a battlefield.

— © Elonaires | Magnus Media

ME:::

What you just read isn’t truth. It’s not even an honest take on feminism. It’s pure misogyny dressed up as “advice.”

Feminism isn’t about rivalry. It isn’t about tearing men down, mocking their struggles, or refusing compromise. It’s about equality, respect, and partnership. A feminist wife isn’t a threat to a home, she’s someone who expects to be treated as an equal human being, not as background support for a man’s ego.

When someone paints equality as war, what they’re really showing is fragility. If respect feels like rebellion, the problem isn’t the woman, it’s the version of masculinity that only feels secure when someone else is kept small.

Marriage doesn’t fall apart because a woman has a voice. It falls apart because one person refuses to listen, refuses accountability, and calls her humanity “competition.” That’s not wisdom. That’s bullshit.

The saddest part is, I don’t even think men who post things like this realise how soaked in misogyny it really is. They mistake control for leadership, compliance for love, and inequality for peace. That’s not partnership. That’s patriarchy dressed up as advice.